Gay Men Going Deeper membership coaching program


| Your Journey Starts Here

The promise of the Gay Men Going Deeper Membership is to provide you with a community to belong to, where you can show up as your authentic self and establish more meaningful connections while learning and growing on your journey.

| Let’s talk about who this membership is really for…

The Gay Men Going Deeper Membership came from our deep desire to create a gay community where everyone belongs and feels safe. After seeing and hearing the need for more hands-on coaching in our free private Facebook group, the , we knew that a membership community would be the best way for us to serve our community and those needs. We wanted to build a “home base” and structure for other gay men seeking guidance and a community to belong to while they work through their own personal development and healing journeys.

| Whether You’re…

  • just starting your journey of personal development and you need guiding hands to help you navigate those first few wobbly steps.
  • looking for a more personal and authentic community to engage with.
  • tired of trying to keep up with the high standards of the gay community.
  • looking to make changes in your life because you KNOW something needs to change but you just aren’t sure where to start.
  • struggling with confidence and a sense of self.
  • looking for more direction or a sense of belonging.
  • looking to develop your relationship skills or create more connections in your life.

You’re in the right place and we’re going to share with you how being part of the Gay Men Going Deeper Membership can help.

| What you get when you join

The details…

| What members are saying

| After you register:

You’ll be given instant access to the membership hub, our “Healing Your Shame” course, our “Building Better Relationships” course and our members-only Facebook group.

You’ll also be able to enjoy early access to the Gay Men Going Deeper podcast as well as take part in group zooms.

We will also lead you through a full onboarding process to make sure that you’re fully set up for success and ready to jump in!

Who are we?

|Meet your coaches

Calan Breckon
Calan Breckon
Matt Landsiedel
Michael DiIorio
Michael DiIorio

Hello! We’re the leaders of the Gay Men’s Brotherhood as well as the hosts of Gay Men Going Deeper, a podcast all about personal development, sexuality and mental health.

Collectively have over 40 years of experience in the personal development world, and in those years we’ve been lucky enough to help change a LOT of people’s lives. We decided to create this membership because it was the best way we saw to serve our community month after month. We dream of a gay community where everyone can feel more connected to one another in more ways than just sexual and we can feel less loneliness as a byproduct. You can read more about our individual stories here.

We also wanted to take the time right now to say that this is an inclusive space. We welcome anyone who identifies as a gay man (this includes trans, queer, genderfluid, and non-binary peoples) into the community.

| Our Promise to You

We can’t wait to begin this journey with you. The lessons you will learn and the friendships you will make in this community will last a lifetime. When you truly feel safe enough to show up authentically in a community, that’s when the real magic of healing begins to happen. We heal faster together than we do isolated and alone.

Whether you’re newly out or have been around the block a few times, this community will empower you to make the changes you know are calling you forward. It’s time to experience what it means to live your life on your terms, expressing your true and authentic self.

Should you choose to join us, we personally guarantee this membership will change the way you show up in the world. 

We look forward to meeting you inside the Gay Men Going Deeper Membership, 

Michael, Calan & Matt  

Still not sure?


You’ll receive 2 emails to the address you used to pay within 24 hours. One email will be your confidential login details and the other will be all of the details you need in order to access the membership hub and how to get started

You’re in the right place. The membership was designed so that anyone, at any level, could join and feel at home. We walk you through a full onboarding experience to make sure you feel ready to join in and engage comfortably. We will also point you in the right direction in regards to content depending on what YOU want to focus on.

Yes. You will be able to pose any questions in the private members-only Facebook group where a community of like-minded guys will be there to support you. We also have a question submission form inside the member’s hub in case you need more hands-on help.

A best practice is to get yourself a journal to track your progress. Other than that, everything is completely 100% digital. Once you register, we suggest dedicating and setting some time each week to log into the hub for “personal development” time.

As sad as we would be to see you go, we have no set contract length for the membership. You’re free to cancel at any time. You can read more about this in our Membership Terms & Conditions.

There’s no rush. Once you get access to the membership hub you can go as fast or as slow as you’d like in regard to how you consume the content. There is no obligation to attend all the Zooms or to watch all the videos as soon as they come out. This is YOUR safe space, so make up your own routine around it and have fun!