The guy who constantly cancels plans, keeps things vague, or disappears when something better comes along — that’s flakiness: a pattern of not following through.
In a culture of endless options and shifting feelings, has unreliability quietly become normal? And what does that actually say about us?
In this off-the-cuff episode, we talk about:
- What flakiness actually is — and what it isn’t
- The difference between boundaries and excuses
- Common avoidance patterns in dating and friendships
- Why keeping your word is about more than just social plans
- What it really means to be a reliable man
This isn’t just about the inconvenience of canceled plans. It’s about self-trust, stronger relationships, and the kind of man you’re practicing becoming.
Today’s Hosts:
- Matt Landsiedel
- Michael DiIorio – Take the 360° Self-Review for Gay Men
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