In this episode, Matt speaks with queer relationship coach Lonay Halloum about why we attract unavailable men. This episode will provide you with a deeper understanding of your relationship patterns and why you might be attracting unavailable men. This episode was inspired by a deep desire to help you heal the subconscious programs that lead to self-abandonment so you can end this exhausting cycle and finally attract available men.
The concepts and questions we explore in this episode are:
- Matt and Lonay both share their stories about attracting unavailable men
- Why do we attract unavailable men?
- How do attachment styles play a role?
- What is the subconscious mind, and how does it contribute to this?
- How can we work with the subconscious mind to heal?
- How does low self-worth play a role in this?
- How can we break this cycle and start to attract available men?
Related Topics:
- Matt’s blog “Why do I keep on attracting avoidant men”?
- Meeting your emotions: guided meditation
- Research study about gay men having avoidant attachment styles
Today’s Guest: Lonay Halloum
Today’s Host: Matt Landsiedel
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